This week, Dispatches from the Field welcomes Dr. Tara Imlay, a recent PhD graduate, swallow conservation expert, and parent. In her post, Tara shares some of the challenges of this kind of multi-tasking – as well as some of its rewards. For more about Tara, see her bio at the end of the post.
Just call me Dr. Mama… after all, my precocious nearly three-year-old does.
Field work was one of my primary considerations when I chose to have a baby during my doctoral degree. Specifically, I wanted to avoid being in the third trimester during my second field season, and I wanted the baby to be at least six months old during my third field season. As you can imagine, that left a very small window in which to get pregnant.
Luckily, for me, that wasn’t a big challenge.
Instead, the challenges during my second field season came in the form of prolonged morning sickness, food aversions, exhaustion, and changes to my centre of gravity. The latter landed me in the hospital after I fell over a bank one morning while mist-netting Bank Swallows. Luckily, no one was seriously injured – and one of my field assistants now has an amazing response to any interview questions about dealing with unexpected problems in the field! After that experience, though, I began delegating a lot more field work to my assistants, especially anything involving heights.
The challenges in my third field season came in the form of exhaustion from lack of sleep. At that time, Robin* was still waking up routinely through the night for feedings. On numerous nights, she was up at 11, again at 2, and my alarm would go off at 3. Honestly, I don’t remember a lot of the details of that field season, but somehow we managed to get everything done.
But despite the challenges, there were a lot of amazing moments during those field seasons and the field seasons since.
Moments like sitting in the field banding birds, with a very chubby baby propped up beside me. Or watching how excited she got over seeing all the birds, cows, sheep, dogs, and anything else that moved at my field sites.
This past year, she’s taken on a more helpful bent in the field: carrying equipment, checking swallow nests, and, her favourite task of all… getting to let birds go after they’ve been captured and banded.
This doesn’t mean everything is perfect. Sometimes, it’s a challenge to manage her short attention spans, and I can’t always bring her with me when I’m in the field. Luckily, I’ve had the opportunity to work with several great people who don’t mind helping out with an inquisitive child, when needed.
But despite the challenges, having a baby during my PhD didn’t affect my ability to finish my degree, and hasn’t stopped me from pursuing other opportunities, both in and out of the field. Becoming a parent with a busy field schedule isn’t a common occurrence, but if it’s something you want, then you just have to go for it, deal with the challenges as they come, and enjoy the special moments along the way.
*Her middle name, for anonymity when she’s older.
Tara Imlay is a recent PhD graduate from Dalhousie University. Her PhD and postdoctoral work focuses on the ecology and conservation of four species of swallows throughout their annual cycle. Prior to pursuing her PhD, she worked on various conservation programs for birds and reptiles in Canada, the USA and Mauritius.
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